Below are three lists you can use for exploring with each other!

Free downloads with thanks (and full credit) to The Duchy, Sex & Love Co and Bex Caputo!

External links to other checklists:



The document lists over 150 BDSM activities and asks the respondent to rate their pleasure of each activity from 1 to 5, indicate if they have ever done it, and whether they would like to do it again with options of never, no desire, forced, maybe, or fetish need. It also asks about allergies, medical issues, STDs, safe sex practices, and any other concerns.

https://www.scribd.com/document/163631556/BDSM-Checklist

When you’re engaging in the kink lifestyle, it’s important to have a BDSM checklist. You probably already have a basic BDSM kink list that you found when you first began your journey. However, it’s essential to have one that is reputable and comprehensible.

A good kink checklist will also help you discover your BDSM limits over time. But how do you actually use one? I’ll be covering all of that here, plus we’ll go over some of the most common kinks.

https://domsubliving.com/bdsm-checklist-for-kinks-limits-and-more/

The Map of Human Sexuality is a poster and interactive Web site intended to show in a humorous way the scope and extent of the human sexual experience. Hang it on the wall, and push pins into it to show where you've been! 


Click here to purchase the printed version of the map